Confirmation wedding the bride and groom accordance with the procedures of the church (the blessing of the marriage by the church office). After the blessing of the marriage is completed then the bride and groom are valid as husband and wife according to the church. Once completed the entire event Pamasu-masuon, both parties are participating in the event Pamasu-masuon or not to go to the place of residence of parents / parent woman to hold a rally. Festival performances by male relatives called party Mangalap parumaen (read: parmaen)
8. Pesta Unjuk
A celebration of the joy of the wedding son and daughter. Feature party joy is sharing shelter:
Jambar distributed to relatives parboru is jambar juhut (meat) and jambar money (tuhor ni Boru) divided according to the rules.
Jambar distributed to relatives paranak is dengke (read: dekke) and Ulos divided according to the rules. Performances party ended with bringing home a bride to the house paranak.
9. Mangihut in Ampang (selling racing)
The bride is brought to the groom who was hailed by male relatives to accompany the sale of food containing ulos provided by male relatives.
10. Ditaruhon Jual.
If a party to the marriage was performed in the groom's house, the bride is allowed to return to their parents and then taken back by the namborunya to namborunya. In this case paranak shall give upa Manar (wages), are in the race to sell upa Manar is not known.
11. Paranak eat together at the residence of the man (Daulat ni Panganon)
Upon arrival of the bride and the entourage in the house of the groom, then held a dinner event with all the invitations that are still willing to go to the groom's house.
Food is food that is brought by the parboru
12. Paulak Une ..
After one, three, five or seven days a woman living with her husband, then paranak, minimum groom with his wife to go home to his father in law to say thanks for the wedding went well, especially the good condition of the bride at the time of the girl (this event more legal aspects related to the purity of the woman until she entered the marriage).
After the show finished papers une, paranak back to his hometown / home and then start a new life.
13. Manjahe.
After some time the bride and groom married life (if he is not the youngest), then it will dipajae, which split the home (shelter) and livelihoods.
14. Maningkir Tangga
Shortly after the bride and groom get married, especially after the stand-alone (home and livelihood have been separated from their parents and male) came to visit parboru paranak with intent maningkir stairs (referred to here is the household newlyweds) , In this visit parboru also bring food (rice and side dishes, dengke sitio tio and dengke simundur-undur)
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